# The Perfectionist's Dilemma by Tara Cousineau (Hardcover)

**“A brilliant book...a must-read for the frazzled perfectionist.” —Thomas Curran, PhD, leading perfectionism researcher and author of _The Perfection Trap_  
  
Break free of toxic perfectionism by cultivating emotional courage and self-compassion to face life's challenges with a 6-step program.**  
  
In today’s high-pressure society, we are constantly fed a fable of individualism, exceptionalism, determination, and ingenuity and taught a mythology of grin and bear it; no pain, no gain; and hard work pays off, despite the fact that the conditions for success are unpredictable and ever changing.  
  
Psychologist Tara Cousineau claims that perfectionism is a paradox: it is the tension created by the need for belonging, a desire for excellence, and a quest for a meaningful and productive life. But perfectionism can be transformed by learning to connect both head and heart, replacing inner algorithms of comparison and criticism with self-acceptance and self-compassion.  
  
In _The Perfectionist’s Dilemma_, Cousineau introduces an innovative six-step solution based on the acronym EVOLVE:  
  

-   **Embody** the present moment.
-   **Validate** your experience.
-   **Open** your heart.
-   **Love** your inner critic.
-   Make a **Vow**.
-   Spark the **Energy** of excellence.

  
EVOLVE helps readers overcome perfectionism and cultivate three essential resources—inner worth, inner humanity, and inner leadership. Through storytelling and anecdotes from recovering perfectionists who have participated in Cousineau’s workshops, readers can learn to align mind, body, heart, and spirit—to become happy achievers.

## Details

- **Price:** 28.49 GBP
- **Vendor:** Crooked Lane Books
- **Type:** Self Help
- **Tags:** All Books, Self Help

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